I know some of you are curious about my lifestyle and how I got into writing about these topics, so that’s what this post is all about.
Is Brenda a Hotwife?
I get this question all the time: “Are you a cuckoldress?” The short answer is no, but I am into FemDomme. I do enjoy hearing from people who are curious about the lifestyle. I enjoy pushing their boundaries and leading them further down the rabbit hole of the cuckolding and hotwife lifestyle, as well as many other fetishes that are deemed taboo.
I consider myself a very open and curious person, but if I told you the number of people I’ve been with, you might be shocked. It’s rather low in comparison to many people I know who are my age, but I’m cool with that. I’m also very cool with the fact that other people may have had their number reach the hundreds or even the thousands.
But…Why Do You Write About Cuckolding?
How the hell did I get started writing on this topic, you may ask? Well, when I was in college, I used to hang out at this coffee shop near campus. Many of my friends went there, too. One of my black acquaintances asked out an acquaintance of mine, who rudely rejected him because he was black.
Okay, look: we all have preferences. I have a preference for tall, gangly, and pale science-minded guys with a dark sense of humor. But I believe in being polite and rejecting someone in a way that helps them maintain a sense of dignity. I value tact.
He mentioned the encounter to me, and I wasn’t surprised. “Sorry,” I told him. “I feel shitty she’s in my social circle. Can I grab you a coffee?”
“You can do something better. I’d pay you for it,” he said.
I leaned forward, ready to hear what he had to say. As a broke college student, I was intrigued.
“Write me a short story about how she changed her mind when she saw my cock. Write about how her new boyfriend couldn’t please her because of his tiny dick.”
As an English major, I was thrilled to get a writing assignment. I was also highly amused by the whole thing, so I pounded out the story in a day or two. He loved it, and I got a nice crispy Andrew Jackson (weird, right?) for payment. I used that story as an example to get hundreds of writing assignments, many of them cuckold related, throughout the years. So, that’s how it all got started.
I’m a Sapiosexual Person
Inevitably, when people ask what you do and you say you’re a smut writer, people want to pull you aside and tell you their stories. I don’t know why that is, but I love it. I think it’s because they’re looking for someone like a priest, someone they can confess to. I definitely don’t mind it. I have a mental orgasm every time someone confesses their sins to me. I love hearing about people’s sexual escapades. I used to absolutely love Penthouse Confessions as a result of this.
I’m very much a sapiosexual, but some of my favorite fetishes are sensation play, bondage, tease and denial, foot worship, and mind fucking. I like using my fingernails (I keep them well-manicured and rather long) and sometimes other implements, but some of the best items are found around the house. I don’t actually have a dungeon. I enjoy tying my partner up, but I often use his belt, or tell him he’s not allowed to move from a certain position. I like to jerk him off and slow down before he’s about to cum, which drives him up the wall. I like having my feet pedicured and I enjoy foot massages and extravagant shoes. I also enjoy playing with my partner when he’s asleep (don’t worry, I have permission to do this), and especially if he’s sleeping very deeply and it’s nearly impossible to rouse him. This is one of my favorite fetishes.
One of my other favorite fetishes is the good old mind fuck. This is why I write, this is why I tease all of you, and this is why I like Niteflirt so much. Men chat with me with an inkling of something–maybe they are intrigued by the idea of watersports, but once I put a scenario in their head, they’re hooked, desperately searching for a gorgeous Mistress to piss in their mouth. Maybe they had a dream about their wife sucking another man’s cock. In about fifteen minutes, I’ll have them cumming like a geyser at the idea of her swallowing his cum.
You get the idea. I like picking through those fleshy folds of your brain to find out your deepest, darkest secret.
Why don’t you reach out and tell me all about it?