Does size matter?

Any woman will tell you: the dick pics pour in on Twitter. I guess that leads to the question, “does size matter?” After all, men want to know if we women think it’s worth seeing in person, amiright?

Some say it’s not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean. But does it matter how big the guy’s dick is?

If you ask different people, you might hear a litany of personal stories. Some claim that size doesn’t matter, as long as the guy knows how to use it. Others swear that the best sex of their lives was with some guy who had a huge cock, just like in that Sex in the City episode featuring Mr. Big. There are some, though, that will say that sex with an exceptionally large dick was no fun, even painful!

At any rate, dick size certainly seems to be a concern among men.

You want the truth? Brenda’s here to tell ya! Scientists have looked at the influence of penis size, and really, studies show that it doesn’t matter, but not necessarily in the ways that you might think.

According to a study by, about 90% of guys have a dick that’s between 4 and 6 inches long. Most women will tell you that width is more important than length. In fact, a really long penis can cause major discomfort.

What does that tell us?

My personal opinion is that confidence is key. How you view your penis size could correlate with how you see the rest of your body, so if you think your way awesome, you will be.

The bottom line? Quit worrying about your size, guys. Your partner is probably already satisfied with what you’ve got going on down there, so rejoice! Stick your chest out, have confidence, and know that you’re good enough.

If you’re *really* worried, I’d recommend a penis extender, like this one. Be adventurous and be willing to please, and your efforts will go far. You can try toys, too, since the clitoris is more sensitive (it has 8,000 nerve endings! For real!). I absolutely love toys like the Shibari mini for clit stimulation.

Don’t forget that things like foreplay, including oral, are sometimes even more fun than the actual act of intercourse. And yep, I’ll be doing a blog post all about that soon enough. 😉

Most importantly? Have sex often, because practice makes perfect.

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