The Down and Dirty: Swinger Clubs

Swinger clubs or sex clubs have experienced a significant rise in terms of their popularity. Who knows why? Maybe it’s the spread of information through technology, or maybe people are just kinkier these days!

Swinger clubs vary wildly, and in these clubs, paying patrons can engage in sexual acts with other patrons. Usually, people visit with their significant other, but there are some, like Collette in New Orleans, that have single men night or that let in single women most nights.

Swinger clubs are very different from brothels. Patrons of sex clubs typically pay annual memberships and/or nightly entrance fees, while patrons of brothels do not. The patrons of brothels pay to have sex with sex workers who are employed by the brothel, while patrons of sex clubs pay to have sex with their fellow patrons. Among the hundreds of sex clubs in the United States, some are formed in house parties. Some originate from meet-up groups but some are fully licensed businesses.

Now, what happens in a swinger club?

I’m sure there are some places that have a bar, but in most I’ve been to, you bring your own alcohol. You pay your entrance fee, drop your alcohol off at the bar (where they have mixers and such), get a drink, and mingle. Usually, there is a dance floor and several seating areas where you can chill out and chat with other couples. If it’s your first time to a swinger club, ask for a tour.

Sometimes, there are voyeur areas, and these are my favorite. It’s a no-pressure way to get involved in a hands-off way while seeing something really naughty.

There’s no pressure to have sex in a club. If you want to go to just watch, do that. If you want to go and have exhibitionist sex with your partner, go for it. If you want to swap partners, this is your chance.

Why would establishments like these be a good place for a date? Couples usually look for something new in their relationship–they look for something to mix things up. So going to these sex clubs is actually a good idea if you’ve been in a relationship for a little while. Most members of these sex clubs are married and join because they are looking for a different experience if their sex life is starting to get boring, or if they’re just looking for something fun and exciting to do.

Sex clubs are usually safe, and some of them require testing for sexually transmitted illnesses before entry and membership is allowed. Swinger clubs are also open to various demographics, yet some are exclusive depending on a person’s race, ethnicity, and sexual orientation among others. Most sex clubs are also open to bisexuals and homosexuals and allow same sex acts to occur in their establishment. The leniency of these types of establishments adds to their overall appeal.

By going to swinger clubs, couples can spice up their sex life dramatically. If their sex life is getting stale, couples can learn new techniques just by watching other people. Sex position, techniques, and sexy talk can all be learned by fellow swinger club patrons. Joining sex clubs also heightens the sex drive of the people involved in a particular relationship, and with this increase in appetite for sexual intercourse, a couple can become more intimate and begin to reconnect with each other. This reconnection can eventually lead to a far better relationship than the one a couple started with.

Joining sex clubs can also increase trust between those in a relationship. People sometimes resort to cheating when they get tired of their partner. By allowing your partner to engage in sexual acts with others while you do the same, this greatly reduces the risk of cheating and other related acts. If you’re curious about the swinging lifestyle, I recommend Swinging for Beginners, The Swinger Manual, and The Ethical Slut.

So contrary to popular belief, joining sex clubs or swinger clubs can actually be beneficial to couples and is actually a pretty good date idea. Joining sex clubs can revive the intimacy in relationships and builds trust in couples. Those in relationships can also learn new techniques to use during sex, so that they can further pleasure their significant other. It may not be a popular choice for date nights, but a swinger club can actually do couples a world of good.

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